technology things & cute things this girl likes.
Imagine.
I imagine scenarios in my head quite often. It’s something I’ve done my whole life, but it has gotten worse in the last few years since I began living alone. A few of my friends would call it obsessing, and they would be right. The other day when I was running I tried to come up with a list of things I’ve been imagining lately.
My next step is to act on some of these things. Or just feel them and know that is ok.
Missing Esme.
Lots of people have stories about their journey knowing Esme Barrera, because she knew everyone and was the very best. I think writing and sharing helps some through such a terrible time. And for others, they have a private journey. This is just my story. Part journey, part grief, part guilt.
My 2012 Resolution.
Yes, just one that’s public. The others of mine are private for me to conquer on my own. My friend Grace posted this on Twitter yesterday and it’s the Resolution/Motto/Quote/Thought I plan to live by this year.
“Allow the world to live as it chooses, and allow yourself to live as you choose.” - Richard Bach
This has never been more true or in apparent need in my life. I want to support my friends, loved ones, acquaintances, and people I pass in the street in their decisions for the year. I will encourage them, be loving, contributory, and positive as they navigate this thing called life. And I would hope, that in return, I will get the same support and love for my own decisions and thoughts.
Tops of the Pops.
Top 5 Moments of 2011.
- Running a marathon.
- Walking across the stage to receive my Masters degree.
- 30 state roadtrip with my good friend Miles.
- Camping at Mustang Island with my dad.
- Toss up between Local Natives at Stubb’s and Sleigh Bells at La Zona.
Top 5 Things Learned in 2011.
- Marathons are very hard to run and tough on your body. (Somehow, this surprised me?)
- Relationships change swiftly, even as adults. Sometimes that can be good and sometimes it is downright saddening.
- Not in a feel sorry for me way, but it would take a lot for me to fall in love again. As of now, I just don’t have it in me.
- There are people you can rely on, always. Even if you think you can’t.
- Don’t drop your iPhone into the bathtub when you+water are already in it.
Top 5 concerts of 2011.
- Local Natives at Stubb’s - March
- Monday of SXSW: Sleigh Bells, Matt & Kim, Yeasayer in one night. - March
- Sleigh Bells at La Zona - April
- Arcade Fire at ACL Live - September
- Fun Fun Fun Fest or Green Day at Red 7 - November
Click through for a breakdown of the year.
Books in 2011.
I used to keep meticulous records of all the books I read every year. I even found a list from 2004 the other day where I’d read over 50 that year. This year I hit 33 books which is not too bad. Almost one a week! Now that I’m not in graduate school, I plan to read more. Especially more non-fiction, learning type books rather than repeats of The Hunger Games.
Click through to see the list.
30 Things to Start Doing For Yourself.
This is in regards to #1: Start spending time with the right people.
oh sarah key. this brings me to tears every second.
what could we learn from each other if we just wrote our ‘10 things I know to be true.’
